Giving thanks is so much more than just an exercise in gratitude; it is also a confession – a confession that we are not who we are and where we are because of ourselves. Thanksgiving is a time to recognize that there are factors outside of ourselves that contribute to the blessings of life. Our humanistic culture tells us that we have everything we need inside of us to be happy, blessed, and successful. The Bible tells me that “within me . . . dwells no good thing.” On my own I am hopeless and helpless. So thanksgiving reminds me that others have played a huge role in making my life what it is. So with that in mind I want to offer Thanksgiving Shout-Outs to some people. I am sure I will leave out some, I can’t mention everyone, but these few are on my heart today and I want to use my space here to say thanks. Let’s start with the FAITH category. First of all I am thankful that the grace of God that brings salvation appeared to me and that Christ called me to Himself. I am thankful that God saw something in me that He wanted and that He has allowed me to be His child. I am thankful for the many times God pulled a Jeremiah 18 on me. If you don’t know what that one is, read the story of the Potter. There are many times God could have given up on me and cast me aside and He hasn’t. Also, I am thankful for the privilege of teaching God’s Word and leading God’s people. I never take for granted the blessed privilege, yet awesome responsibility and grave trust God has place in me.
Then there is the FAMILY category. I am blessed with a beautiful bride and a darling daughter. Andrea and Rebekah are indeed the sunshine in my life. When I look at Andrea, I wonder what she must have been thinking when she said “I Do.” I wonder if she realized “do” would involve all that it has. But DO she has done, and she has done it with a grace that is truly amazing. Then, Bekah. What can I say? Even as I type this she is marching through my office at home blowing her kazoo . . . at 10:30 at night! Full of energy and I love every ounce of her. She has taught me more about my Heavenly Father than I ever could have learned. Thank you, girls.
Also, I am thankful for parents and a sister who helped make me what I am today. Yeah, blame them if you have any complaints. LOL. But I think they did an amazing job with what they had to work with. Much of what I know spiritually is the result of my dad and mom putting me in positions to learn and grow spiritually. They saw to it that I went to church – and at a solidly Biblical one at that – and that I had a Christian education. And at home they reinforced that training. When I married Andrea, I inherited a whole new set of family. And the Johnsons and Hortons have played a role in blessing me – probably in ways they will never imagine. And all my uncles, aunts, and cousins, you all have been such a comfort. And I still miss my grandmothers so much. Sometimes, painfully so. Thank you, folks.
Two other mentions here in family. While it would seem more appropriate to list them as friends, they are far more than that . . . they are the brothers I never had – Shannon and Heath. Your families have become my extended families and I could not imagine what life would have been without y’all, but I KNOW it would have been less of a blessing. I am almost as much Moxley and Menchew as I am Duggan. When Bekah was born, in those first few weeks when Andrea and I had almost “lost” it, there was Shannon, full of encouragement and advice. He came to the house – in a thunderstorm and spent time with us telling us how he made it through. And of course the Menchews . . . Heath, Nina, Hanin, and Heather are as much a part of our life as living and breathing. We love all of you so much. Thank you.
Then the FRIENDS category. It is said that if a person has one true friend that they are blessed. I have many and I want to “single” out three – if that is grammatically possible: Ricky, Michael, Chris. The Thrashers have been part of my life since college. Other than those listed in family, no one has been willing to stick with me that long. That we get to work so closely together now is truly a blessing to me. The Pettys came into my life at one of the high times and they remain a bright spot. I cannot think of anyone I have prayed with more or shared with more than Michael. He is indeed a brother that knows my heart even more than I know it myself. That we DO NOT get to work closely together saddens me. Maybe one day! And it sure was difficult to watch Stacey Thrasher and Mallory Petty get married. I watched those little girls grow into beautiful ladies and I thank their fathers for letting us share in the experience of their lives. The Gilliams, while relatively new to the Duggan experience (about 10 years now), nonetheless have been a source of strength and joy to us. You guys have been there so many times when we needed you, and we can never repay your friendship. And by the way, don’t let Meredith get married anytime soon, OK? I don’t think I can take another one. I figure she is at least 15 years away, right? Thank you all for allowing us into your homes, your hearts, and your lives. We love you.
Then one other friend who is like a sister to me – Pat Terry. What would I do without you? I mean, really, whose life could I complicate if I didn’t have you? I thank you for so much more than just the job you do, although that to me is indispensable, I thank you for the woman that you are. You put up with so much more than most people realize – so much of which is on account of me – and yet you continue on serving the Lord. You are an inspiration and I love and thank you for it all.
One last category I will call FELLOWSHIP. A recent development in my life is to be part of an online community. This blog as well as three message boards make up a large part of my online experience. I want to say thank you to all who read this blog and comment either on the blog, on the message boards, or by email. It amazes me that anyone is interested in, much less benefited by my random thoughts. But then again, only God can strike a straight blow with a crooked stick. I have made many new friends online, and I enjoy so much the fellowship with all of you. But here are just a few to whom I want to say special thanks.
Deon and Susan Unthank, Chris and Amy – SoGo was my first online home and you still bless me letting me be a part of what you do there. All the folks at SoGo are special to me.
Laura Kennedy – thanks for your friendship and for letting me be a part of the Nuts Board. Hey, and because of you, I am published. WOW! Thanks, girl!
The Browns and all the folks at SGML – thanks for letting me post the Hot Seat updates. And thanks to all the folks on the board there who offer me such rich encouragement.
Missy White – thank you for everything you have done. My little girl has experienced more THIS YEAR than most people get to in a lifetime because of you. But even more than what you do, thanks for who you ARE. You are a treasure
Colie – if my daughter grows up to be like you, I will consider myself a blessed father.
And then last, but CERTAINLY not least my church family. Thank you for putting up with me.
Two words – thank you – seem so insufficient to express to everyone in my life what you mean to me. You are God’s richest blessings in my life I thank Him for you and I thank you for all that you are and do.